The lovely venue for our second gathering of the NCFIP.
A few weekends ago, we had the delight of spending some time with members from the Hayden family. We first met some of the Haydens in 2004 when Nathan was working down in Texas. Over the past years, we have treasured the time to get to know their family better. The Haydens were able to
visit Missouri last summer, so this summer after
connecting in Jamestown, we all decided to meet them in Kansas for some wonderful fun and fellowship.
Regrettably, both our dad and Mr. Hayden were busy with their respective responsibilities, but all the moms and kids had a grand visit together. We took off from St. Louis after Nathan's work on Friday and rendezvoused halfway at the home of the Hayden's gracious Uncle Gary. We talked late into the night (yes, some people were a little bleary eyed), and the next morning awoke refreshed. It was the day of the Second Semi-Periodical Gathering of the NCFIP [
Editor's Note: National Center for Family Integrated Picnics]!
Lydia and Beth making scones.
We commenced the day's activities with a delicious breakfast prepared by the kind ladies.
Mrs. Hayden cooking breakfast.
Nathan and Caleb in early morning discussion.Talking was a common theme during the weekend. Nary a topic was not alluded to without seeking to bring the Scriptures to bear upon it. Economics, law, daughter's roles, blogging, church dynamics, eldership, discipleship, and many more topics too numerous to note filled the air.
Breakfast al' fresco.We shared our meals with Uncle Gary, Mrs. Hayden's brother. We had some wonderful discussions regarding weighing the benefits vs. downsides of a college education in contrast with the challenges of an apprenticeship model. Uncle Gary is a very successful Christian businessman and a man with a heart for discipleship.
Austin.
Uncle Gary has a passion for discipling young men who don't have fathers. He brings young men into his home for days at a time, giving them training in life and the things of God. He has a tough love approach, expecting much from these boys who are learning to be men, and at the same time showing them a fatherly affection.
Uncle Gary had recently been laid up with knee surgery. As his wife was out of town for a few days, the "boys" had come over to care for him. It was amazing to see the tough and tender way the boys thought of Uncle Gary's needs, and how they respected him. Watching the interaction between these guys was a highlight of the trip for me. Amazing picture of the love of our Heavenly Father has for his adopted children.
Titus 2 moments abounded: Beth, Rebecca, Lydia and Mrs. Hayden.
Another precious part of the mini-weekend was the many times of the older women instructing the younger women. Mrs. Hayden and Mom are both wise women. It was a treasure to spend time with the mothers.
The delight of joining in sisterly conversations was another joy. We Serven girls have really enjoyed getting to know Lydia and Susanna. Many honest conversations were shared speaking of the challenges and joys of sister- and daughter-hood.
Someones in trouble now! : )
Summer kitchen.The surroundings of our environment for the NCFIP were very gracious and accommodating. : ) We had a TON of space and it was a joy making use of the various aspects of the home. The summer kitchen was quite handy in preparing for the official "picnic" part of the NCFIP.
BBQ Chicken and Hamburgers for lunch.
Mmmm, Mmmm, Good. Thank you ladies!
Benjamin, Josh, and Peter chatting.We moved indoors with the afternoon heat and visited in the cool of the basement.
Former pin-ball champion. That's right. When Dad and Mom were getting to know one another 28 plus years ago, Dad was a poor seminary student. They would go out, split a order of soup, then find a pizza parlor that had a pin ball machine. Because Dad would only bring a few quarters, if Mom wanted the after dinner activities to last longer than a few minutes, she had to get pretty good at Pin-ball. So, she did. : )
Transitioning our activities towards the finer things in life.
Lydia S. on violin, Beth on harp, Susanna on violin.
The ladies serenaded us with a variety of musical genres and instruments. We also enjoyed a violin solo from Nathan Hayden [
Editor's Note: You can see a picture
here].
Singing in parts from the Trinity Hymnal.Lydia H. was sweet to sing a song that our Beth and Lydia knew (in Gaelic, no less!). We then joined in an hymn sing, learning new ones the other family knew, and also singing the old stalwarts.
Nathan H. all tuckered out. Time for a . . . .
. . . Mid Afternoon Snack of Root Beer Floats.Before we started packing up to go home, Caleb delivered
his recent sermon to us. It is exciting to see the Lord raising up a new generation of men who declare His truth. Unfortunately, we did not get any good pictures of this . . . as we sat out of doors under the shaded canopy, talking about things the Lord was doing in His Kingdom, visiting with stories of laughter, earnestly discussing concepts important for the days to come, we were reticent to leave. But like all good things, this day too must come to an end.
Taking a picture of taking a picture.
The Whole Crew at the NCFIP Gathering (minus the photographer).We were overjoyed to spend time with the gracious Hayden family. Thank you Haydens for your friendship and for making the time to meet with us for the Second Semi-Periodical Gathering of the NCFIP ! : )
P. S. Don't forget to visit
Lydia's,
Caleb's and
Nathan's blogs!